Thank God you are MAN !!

 

 

Singapore True Story

A certain rich businessman had a beautiful daughter, who fell in love with a guy who was a cleaner. When the girl's father came to know about their love, he did not like it at all, and so began to protest about it.



Now it happened that the two lovers decided to leave their homes for a happy future. The girl's father started searching for the two lovers but could not find them.. At last, he accepted their love and asked them to come back home in a local newspaper.Her father said 'If you both come back I will allow you to marry. I accept that you love each other truly.



' So in this way, their love won and they returned home.



The couple went to town to shop for the wedding dress.He was dressed in a white shirt that! day. While he was crossing the road to the other side to get some drinks for his fiancee, a car came and hit him and he died on the spot. The girl lost her senses. It was only after some time that she recovered from her shocked. The funeral and cremation was the very next day as he had died horribly.



Two nights later, the girl's mother had a dream in which she saw an old lady. The old lady asked her mother to wash the blood stains of the guy from her daughter's dress as soon as possible. But her mother ignored the dream.



The next night her father had the same dream, he also ignored it.



Then when the girl had the same dream the next night,she woke up in fear and told her mother about the dream. Her mother asked her to wash the clothes which have blood stains immediately.



She washed the stains but some remained. Next night she again had the same dream she again washed the stains but some still remained!!!



Next night she again had the same dream and this time the old lady gave her a last warning to wash the blood stain, or else something terrible will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the stains,and the clothes nearly tore, but some stains still remained.



She was very tired. In the late evening the same day while she was alone at home, someone knocked the door. When she opened the door she saw the same old lady in her dream standing at her door. She got very scared and fainted The old lady woke her up... and gave her a blue object, which shocked the girl.. She asked 'What is this...?'





















The old lady replied... 'Aiyaa……..try DYNAMO Liquid Soap... just a dab and it will remove all stubborn stains !!!' ...........



Gotcha !!!!



I know how you all are feeling now... I have been through this too. But don't look at me like that leh...... Just enjoy it.



Cheers

Aven

Water & Cups Story

A group of working adults got together to visit their University lecturer.

The Lecturer was happy to see them.

Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.
The Lecturer just smiled and went to the kitchen to get an assortment of
cups - some porcelain, some plastic, some glass, some plain looking
and some looked rather expensive and exquisite.

The Lecturer offered his former students the cups to get drinks for hemselves.

When all the students had a cup in hand with water, the Lecturer spoke:
"If you noticed, all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken up,
leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal that you only
want the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and
stress. What all you wanted was water, not the cup, but we
unconsciously went for the better cups."

"Just like in life, if Life is Water, then the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold/maintain Life, but the quality of Life doesn't change."

"If we only concentrate on the cup, we won't have time to enjoy/taste the water in it."

It is about time that we need to enjoy of WATER !!

B®ink Of Collapse

27 May 2008 Tues ~ After my routine tuesday training, my Sifu gather us to have some discussion. Mainly about the coming C'ship but there is a special case today. Well, not quite as expected that I got a little problem with the class. I skip all the details here. All the sudden I felt my patience, endurance have reach a limit.



When people did bad things towards me, I'll just sigh and 'Suan Le Bah'. Never mind, I can do it. Nevermind, she's my junior. Nevermind, maybe she busy, Nevermind, little boys class should be noisy. Nevermind, nevermind, nevermind, nevermind..... This time I do mind. Why can't other do the opposite. I just wonder why other just need to be that calculative on doing things. Seldom for me to make complains. I don't know how to express myself now, maybe all those 'Negative Energy' that lays dormant and slumber all the while just receive a wake up call.



I need to channel it away now. I've make a promise not to fight anymore so the channel is closed. One of the channel option is closed. I'll find my ways. So I'll punish myself to write 100 words of nevermind today.

This is some form of SELF ABUSE. Please Don't TRY this at HOME!!



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A Beautiful Present

25 May 08 Sun ~ Yeah.. Here I am after some slumber moment and lazy to write. It Sunday again and I'm as busy as usual. As out PTNP C'ship is approaching, the training become packed. All teams were squeeze inside the hall. Wow, I really can't take care all of them coz train teams need certain of attention for each team. I have about 9 teams, lucky that I got some assistant to help me out a little.

All goes well but not much progress especially my Power Rangers and Power Puff Girls team ( children team ). They really drains me out completely. Lastly the training over, and some members stay back to have some extra mile in Sparring. Really happy that they take effort to stay back and learn more. In martial art there are no short cut, not like studies, just read it and scores. In martial art, everthing is done little by little, gains through experience & experience is time consuming. Talents alone is not enough. I do have talented students but most of them just stop in the middle and gone with the wind and yet those who have perserverance stays on and eventually become better skills in some ways. Talents only give you extra boost and not permanent. For those who achieve better skill is just another stories of Rabbit Vs Little Turtle.

Sunday class is really such a hectic day. From 6.30 am in the morning to 8.00 pm in night only with little rest in afternoon. 2 of my stay back for some target training. I teach them some 'front side jep' and 'back kick. One of them miss the target and landed on my stomach Ouch... Well, after we packed up our things we have some chat. We touch about what going on around us, why a student of mine suddenly stop TKD even though he luv TKD very much. Maybe is just some attitude that matters. When talk about this, I explain to my student about her attitude problems also. There is a point when she make me mad. I explained to her how I handle the problems in order to prevent further damages to our relationship. Relationship needs time to build and yet easyly broken if either of the party back off.

I really mad and sad by the behaviour of not being responsible toward the action done. The consequences from the action taken is not taken into account. this is not the way of doin things I said. 'I have the every right to mad at you and don't bother you anymore' I said. 'But in this way non of the party will benefits from this type of action I taken'".... " Eventually you will leave our family and both also loose" I opts to consult some advise from my friends from various age group on how they see things.

So I believe I've taken the best approach for to FORGIVE first pending the appology from my student. FORGIVENESS is the best present after all. After all my lecture, my student admited and applogies to me. Well, forgive and forget is the next things. We chat on untill the time past so fast it's already Monday 12.09 am... Really hope they learn from my lecture They bade me goodnight and went home. I ask them to give me a call after arrived home but 20 minutes past no a ring. I'm worried and her mother said they didn't arrived home yet and I drive out to search them. Lucky that they arrived home minutes later and went to have some DaPau ( take away ) to eat... Phew....

Forgive and Forget,

Live Ur Live without REGRET,

The more you GIVE, the more you GET,

Thats the Live I pledge and BET......
Aven

Life And People

 

Life is liked a box of chocolate, you do not know what you will get in the next.

If the chocolate is not inside your mouth, you wouldn't know how was the taste.

Sweet, bitter,.....whatever....only you can felt it and taste it once you choose it.

Different people have different say on it too.

Never try never know in life.

 

 

 

                              ........do you like chocolate ........

 

 

People are liked tea bags, you have only to put them into hot water before you can know how strong they are.

we are packaged in all kinds of shapes and sizes to suite the different taste buds. Some TEA are sweet while others are
bitter. But one thing TEA need is hot water.  We need hot water to bring out the flavor and aroma. 

Different TEA taste differently.

 

 

 

                             ........do you get your's cup of TEA in life........

 

 

5th Grade Math Quiz ( Try It Out )

This quiz really crack my brain. It been a long time since I have to dig deep into my brain to solve maths. It feels great and I'm like flashed back to SECONDARY SCHOOL when you got ' The Urge To Solve' the question. The question goes like this




There are 7 girls in a bus.
Each girl has 7 backpacks.
In each backpack, there are 7 big cats.
For every big cat there are 7 little cats.

Question: How many legs are there in the bus?



Do put your answers in comments, let's see who's the 1st.

Happy Solving
Aven

Behind The Hazel Eyes

Seems like just yesterday
You were a part of me
I used to stand so tall
I used to be so strong
Your arms around me tight
Everything, it felt so right
Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong
Now I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hanging on

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes


I told you everything
Opened up and let you in
You made me feel alright
For once in my life
Now all that's left of me
Is what I pretend to be
So together, but so broken up inside'
Cause I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hangin' on

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes

Swallow me then spit me out
For hating you, I blame myself
Seeing you it kills me now
No, I don't cry on the outside
Anymore...

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears
I cryBehind these hazel eyes

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
ust thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes